THE VIBRANT SURVIVOR -How to Identify a Narcissist, Narcissistic Abuse, Toxic Relationships, Trauma Healing, Health, Wellness
***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse. Do you want to disconnect from narcissistic or toxic relationships? Are you feeling stressed and lonely in dysfunctional family and work environments, or social groups? Are you ready to heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse? In this podcast, you’ll find holistically healing solutions to set you free from narcissistically abusive relationships, trauma-related health issues, and the enabling of toxic behavior. My mission is to help you heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse through holistic health, trauma support, and boundaries. If you’re ready to disconnect from dysfunction, prioritize your healing, and reclaim your power after narcissistic abuse, then you’re in the right place! Hi, I’m Lesley. A wife, mom, and narcissistic abuse survivor. For years, I rationalized toxic relationships and dysfunctional environments, in an effort to find connection, purpose, success, and peace. I fell for lies, fake opportunities, and empty promises, wasting my time, talents, and money. It took a toll on my mental health (Hello, CPTSD!); and it almost cost me my life…literally. I finally realized that if I was going to break the cycle and heal my childhood trauma from the inside out, I needed a holistic approach. I reclaimed and redirected my resources towards solutions that helped me to put the narcissistic and toxic people in my life in my rear-view mirror. After applying some stealthy strategies for drama-free exits, protecting my peace, and pursuing my goals, I was determined to help others to identify, navigate, and heal from this insidious form of abuse. I went to school and became a Master Certified Health Coach and Certified Trauma Support Specialist. And I’m here to teach you how to heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse. If you’re ready to experience healing and empowerment after narcissistic abuse that focuses on YOU; holistic health and wellness solutions with real results like more clarity, discernment, confidence, a more positive mindset, healthy boundaries, and better relationships – this podcast is for you! Take a deep breath in…Let it out slowly…And just relax, this time is for you. Contact: support@lesleycain.com Instagram: @thevibrantsurvivor ***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Any reliance you place on this information is strictly at your own risk. Lesley Cain is not a doctor, therapist or counselor. If you need healthcare, medical attention, therapy, or counseling, please seek professional help from a licensed practitioner.
Episodes

3 days ago
3 days ago
Hey, Survivor!How do you fight for justice, when the system fights harder to protect its own? In this episode, I’m sharing 3 healthy ways to keep moving forward. Whether you’re navigating the justice system or a toxic narcissistic safe haven or old regime, it can leave you feeling discouraged, stressed out, and exhausted. You’re not alone, your light is needed, and you have to prioritize and protect your health and well-being!
If you, or someone you know, have ever felt like the system protects power and profit over people, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Mar 21, 2025
Friday Mar 21, 2025
Hey, Survivor!How do you stand your ground and speak your truth in court? In this episode, I’m sharing 5 keys to making a victim impact statement - even when you aren’t prepared. Navigating the judicial system can leave you feeling silenced, ignored, and overwhelmed. And this can negatively impact your health and well-being. You’re not alone; and your voice matters!
If you, or someone you know, have ever felt minimized by the system and [literally] speechless, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Mar 14, 2025
Friday Mar 14, 2025
Hey, Survivor!How do you navigate the road to justice? In this episode, I’m sharing 5 realities about seeking justice that I witnessed during a settlement hearing for one of the 7 defendants charged with Preston Lord’s murder. The journey to justice can be long, slow, and it can take a toll on your health and well-being - mentally, physically and emotionally. Take one step at a time, and look for glimmers of hope along the way. You’re stronger than you know!
If you, or someone you know, are navigating the justice system or supporting someone who is, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Mar 07, 2025
Friday Mar 07, 2025
Hey, Survivor!Where do you go, and what do you do, for healing? In this episode, I’m taking you to my happy place and sharing 7 ways to heal in Sedona. Healing is a process, not a place, and it starts with YOU! It doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive either. Self-care in nature - wherever you are - can be a powerful way to improve your health and well-being. You are worthy and it’s worth it!
If you, or someone you know, need inspiration to create your own healing retreats and rituals, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Feb 28, 2025
Friday Feb 28, 2025
Hey, Survivor!How do you challenge toxic leadership, while avoiding burnout? In this episode, I’m sharing 5 strategies to help you raise your voice, call for accountability, advocate for change, and plan for self-care. Speaking truth to power shouldn’t compromise your health and well-being. You can raise your voice and create change, while incorporating healthy lifestyle habits!
If you, or someone you know, need strategies for challenging narcissistic or toxic leadership, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Feb 21, 2025
Friday Feb 21, 2025
Hey, Survivor! 👋🏾
How do you navigate toxic leadership? ☠️
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways you can advocate for change, when narcissistic individuals and systems are running the show. I’ll talk about how and why proximity matters in these situations; and how to prioritize your well-being. It should never be a position, a paycheck, or power over people. Your voice matters, and you can create change! 🎙️
If you, or someone you know, need help navigating narcissism in leadership fearlessly, this episode is for you. ❤️🩹
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are. 👁️
💚Lesley
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Friday Feb 14, 2025
Friday Feb 14, 2025
Hey, Survivor!How do you handle unexpected triggers, after narcissistic abuse? In this episode, I’m taking you with me on the road to justice, as I share my traumatic experience outside the courtroom, right before a pre-trial hearing this week for the alleged murderer. And I’m sharing 6 ways you can tend to your inner garden when these storms hit. After all, healing is a journey; and self-care is health care.
If you, or someone you know, have been blindsided, overwhelmed, and need help regulating your emotions in high-stress situations, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Feb 07, 2025
Friday Feb 07, 2025
Hey, Survivor!Are you sick of the illusion that the narcissist creates in the courtroom with their image? In this episode, I’m breaking down the facade of fashion in legal proceedings and other hearings. This includes the use of clothing, colors, eyewear, and hair styles to manage perceptions and gain sympathy. And I’m offering some survivor tips to help you navigate this tactic and heal. After all, feeding into the facade can compromise your health and well-being.
If you, or someone you know, needs help navigating narcissistic manipulation in court, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Jan 31, 2025
Friday Jan 31, 2025
Hey, Survivor!You know I’ve spent A LOT of time in court this past year, right? Well, in this episode, I’m sharing narcissistic courtroom tactics and power plays the narcissist uses during legal battles. As an example, I’m using a school board committee hearing that’s happening RIGHT NOW! Even though it’s technically not a court of law, the same *principles* apply (pun intended). Regardless of the relationship, these situations can be very stressful and compromise your mental health and well-being. So, I’m providing tips on how to deal and heal, plus a cool tool for you to try.
If you, or someone you know, needs help identifying, navigating and healing from narcissistic tactics around legal and other hearings, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Jan 24, 2025
Friday Jan 24, 2025
Hey, Survivor!In this episode, I’m sharing the life-changing power of boundaries for narcissistic abuse survivors. If you’re in a toxic relationship, you need to learn to distance yourself from dysfunction, so you can protect your health, peace and joy. You’re worthy of healing!
If you, or someone you know, needs help setting boundaries, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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