THE VIBRANT SURVIVOR -How to Identify a Narcissist, Narcissistic Abuse, Toxic Relationships, Childhood Trauma Healing
***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Heal after narcissistic abuse. Do you want to disconnect from narcissistic or toxic relationships? Are you feeling stressed and lonely in dysfunctional family and work environments, or social groups? Are you ready to heal after narcissistic abuse? In this podcast, you’ll find holistically healing solutions to set you free from narcissistically abusive relationships, trauma-related health issues, and the enabling of toxic behavior. My mission is to help you heal after narcissistic abuse through holistic health, trauma support, and boundaries. If you’re ready to disconnect from dysfunction and prioritize your healing after narcissistic abuse, then you’re in the right place! Hi, I’m Lesley. A wife, mom, and narcissistic abuse survivor. For years, I rationalized toxic relationships and dysfunctional environments, in an effort to find connection, purpose, success, and peace. I fell for lies, fake opportunities, and empty promises, wasting my time, talents, and money. It took a toll on my mental health (Hello, CPTSD!); and it almost cost me my life…literally. I finally realized that if I was going to break the cycle and heal my childhood trauma from the inside out, I needed a holistic approach. I reclaimed and redirected my resources towards solutions that helped me to put the narcissists in my life in my rear-view mirror. After applying some stealthy strategies for drama-free exits, protecting my peace, and pursuing my goals, I was determined to help others to identify, navigate, and heal from this insidious form of abuse. I went to school and became a Master Certified Health Coach and Certified Trauma Support Specialist. And I’m here to teach you how to heal after narcissistic abuse. If you’re ready to experience healing after narcissistic abuse that focuses on YOU; holistic health and wellness solutions with real results like greater clarity, confidence, a more positive mindset, healthy boundaries, and better relationships – this podcast is for you! Take a deep breath in…Let it out slowly…And just relax, this time is for you. Contact: support@lesleycain.com Instagram: @thevibrantsurvivor ***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Any reliance you place on this information is strictly at your own risk. Lesley Cain is not a doctor, therapist or counselor. If you need healthcare, medical attention, therapy, or counseling, please seek professional help from a licensed practitioner.
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Friday Feb 02, 2024
Friday Feb 02, 2024
Hey, Survivor!Are you compromising your health and healing by communicating with the narcissist? Help is on the way! In this episode, I give you 5 reasons to stop communicating with the narcissist.
If you, or someone you know, need encouragement to stop communicating with the narcissist, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Jan 26, 2024
Friday Jan 26, 2024
Hey, Survivor!Looking for ways to incorporate self-care on your healing journey, after narcissistic abuse? I’ve got you covered. In this episode, I’m covering 6 healthy lifestyle practices that you can do, or have someone arrange for you.
If you, or someone you know, need some self-care tips, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Jan 19, 2024
Friday Jan 19, 2024
Hey, Survivor!Are you being threatened by the narcissist in your life? This is a textbook narcissistic tactic to gain, or regain control of a situation. I’m literally watching upstanders in my community go through this as they seek justice for Preston Lord. Truth is being exposed, darkness is coming to light, and narcissistic individuals are scrambling to save face. In this episode, I’m sharing 7 things you need to know about the narcissist’s threats.
If you, or someone you know, need to say, “No!” to this toxic behavior, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Jan 12, 2024
Friday Jan 12, 2024
Hey, Survivor!What do you know about ACEs, or Adverse Childhood Experiences? This trauma can lead to more health issues, later in life, if not addressed. I’m seeing this play out in my community, after the senseless fatal assault of 16-year-old Preston Lord. Teen violence has escalated; and there are some common threads among the perpetrators and their families. In this episode, I’m sharing 4 things you can do to create healthy relationships, safety and stability in your community, and make an impact.
If you, or someone you know, need information about ACEs, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Stay tuned for more details…And thanks so much for an amazing year!
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Friday Jan 05, 2024
Friday Jan 05, 2024
Hey, Survivor!Have you listened to the Katt Williams interview that aired this week? I did. And whether he intended to, or not, he exposed some narcissistic behaviors from his experience in the entertainment industry. He also dropped some gems that can help you to navigate toxic relationships. In this episode, I’m sharing 6 behaviors that Katt mentioned, and tying them to trauma. I’ve also paired them with 6 of his quotes from the conversation.
According to Katt, 2024 is the year for truth-tellers and exposure. And I’m here for it!
If you, or someone you know, need help identifying and navigating narcissistic relationships, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Take a screenshot, then send it to support@lesleycain.com by January 24th.
I’ll enter your name into a drawing and announce the winner on January 26th.
Stay tuned for more details…And thanks so much for an amazing year!
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Friday Dec 29, 2023
Friday Dec 29, 2023
Hey, Survivor!Are you forced to pet the elephant in the room, in your narcissistic family? It’s hard, especially when you don’t have language to describe what has happened, or is happening, to you. Or you feel pressure to suck it up and keep forging ahead, through chaos and confusion. This episode offers healthy hacks, so you can stop swimming in denial.
It’s sad, when the elephant in the room becomes the family pet. Stop feeding the beast, and take your power back!
If you, or someone you know, are dealing with narcissistic family dynamics , this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Dec 22, 2023
Friday Dec 22, 2023
Hey, Survivor!Have you considered hiring a private investigator, after narcissistic abuse? It may sound extra; but it’s not. Actually, it can help to reveal the truth about who and what you’re dealing with. This episode offers several benefits of hiring a PI, so that you can focus on your health and wellbeing.
Narcissists love to create chaos and drama, then leave you dazed, confused, and angry. When you calm your body and brain, you will have the clarity to determine your next best step in dealing with your narcissistic relationship. And you’ll figure out exactly who to call for help.
If you, or someone you know, are considering hiring a PI, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Dec 15, 2023
Friday Dec 15, 2023
Hey, Survivor!Are you ready to tackle some myths about trauma? At one point or another, we’ve all shamed and blamed ourselves for our body’s reaction to what has happened to us. So, this episode is dedicated to helping you better understand what has happened to you, so that you don’t assist the narcissist in your life in making you feel bad so they can feel better.
Trauma is the result of more internal and external change than your body can handle. And I’ve had my own body turn against me, as a result. It was rough; but I found the strength to persevere through the process and restore my health and wellbeing, after narcissistic abuse.
If you, or someone you know, need help understanding your trauma, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Dec 08, 2023
Friday Dec 08, 2023
Hey, Survivor!‘Tis the season for special events. And, for narcissists, special events can evoke sabotage attempts. This could include: holiday parties, family gatherings, weddings, and more. What should be a joyous occasion can easily become a stressful or traumatic situation that compromises your health and wellbeing.
When I got married 26 years ago this week, my dad almost ruined my special day. His toxic behavior included a hotel room “lockdown,” smear campaign, and threats against me and my husband. If I had known then who and what I was dealing with, I could have prepared for the chaos and drama that he created.
If you, or someone you know, need help navigating narcissistic relationships around special occasions, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Dec 01, 2023
Friday Dec 01, 2023
Hey, Survivor!After narcissistic abuse, expressing gratitude can boost your body and brain health.
As a survivor, it can be hard to give thanks, after dealing with a narcissist. That said, being grateful is a healthy way to turn your attention away from narcissistic or toxic relationships that are robbing you of your precious resources (i.e. time, energy, attention, and money). In this episode, I share 3 ways to give thanks.
If you, or someone you know, need help with gratitude on your healing journey, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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