THE VIBRANT SURVIVOR -How to Identify a Narcissist, Narcissistic Abuse, Toxic Relationships, Trauma Healing, Health, Wellness
***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse. Do you want to disconnect from narcissistic or toxic relationships? Are you feeling stressed and lonely in dysfunctional family and work environments, or social groups? Are you ready to heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse? In this podcast, you’ll find holistically healing solutions to set you free from narcissistically abusive relationships, trauma-related health issues, and the enabling of toxic behavior. My mission is to help you heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse through holistic health, trauma support, and boundaries. If you’re ready to disconnect from dysfunction, prioritize your healing, and reclaim your power after narcissistic abuse, then you’re in the right place! Hi, I’m Lesley. A wife, mom, and narcissistic abuse survivor. For years, I rationalized toxic relationships and dysfunctional environments, in an effort to find connection, purpose, success, and peace. I fell for lies, fake opportunities, and empty promises, wasting my time, talents, and money. It took a toll on my mental health (Hello, CPTSD!); and it almost cost me my life…literally. I finally realized that if I was going to break the cycle and heal my childhood trauma from the inside out, I needed a holistic approach. I reclaimed and redirected my resources towards solutions that helped me to put the narcissistic and toxic people in my life in my rear-view mirror. After applying some stealthy strategies for drama-free exits, protecting my peace, and pursuing my goals, I was determined to help others to identify, navigate, and heal from this insidious form of abuse. I went to school and became a Master Certified Health Coach and Certified Trauma Support Specialist. And I’m here to teach you how to heal and thrive after narcissistic abuse. If you’re ready to experience healing and empowerment after narcissistic abuse that focuses on YOU; holistic health and wellness solutions with real results like more clarity, discernment, confidence, a more positive mindset, healthy boundaries, and better relationships – this podcast is for you! Take a deep breath in…Let it out slowly…And just relax, this time is for you. Contact: support@lesleycain.com Instagram: @thevibrantsurvivor ***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Any reliance you place on this information is strictly at your own risk. Lesley Cain is not a doctor, therapist or counselor. If you need healthcare, medical attention, therapy, or counseling, please seek professional help from a licensed practitioner.
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Friday Dec 29, 2023
Friday Dec 29, 2023
Hey, Survivor!Are you forced to pet the elephant in the room, in your narcissistic family? It’s hard, especially when you don’t have language to describe what has happened, or is happening, to you. Or you feel pressure to suck it up and keep forging ahead, through chaos and confusion. This episode offers healthy hacks, so you can stop swimming in denial.
It’s sad, when the elephant in the room becomes the family pet. Stop feeding the beast, and take your power back!
If you, or someone you know, are dealing with narcissistic family dynamics , this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Dec 22, 2023
Friday Dec 22, 2023
Hey, Survivor!Have you considered hiring a private investigator, after narcissistic abuse? It may sound extra; but it’s not. Actually, it can help to reveal the truth about who and what you’re dealing with. This episode offers several benefits of hiring a PI, so that you can focus on your health and wellbeing.
Narcissists love to create chaos and drama, then leave you dazed, confused, and angry. When you calm your body and brain, you will have the clarity to determine your next best step in dealing with your narcissistic relationship. And you’ll figure out exactly who to call for help.
If you, or someone you know, are considering hiring a PI, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Dec 15, 2023
Friday Dec 15, 2023
Hey, Survivor!Are you ready to tackle some myths about trauma? At one point or another, we’ve all shamed and blamed ourselves for our body’s reaction to what has happened to us. So, this episode is dedicated to helping you better understand what has happened to you, so that you don’t assist the narcissist in your life in making you feel bad so they can feel better.
Trauma is the result of more internal and external change than your body can handle. And I’ve had my own body turn against me, as a result. It was rough; but I found the strength to persevere through the process and restore my health and wellbeing, after narcissistic abuse.
If you, or someone you know, need help understanding your trauma, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Dec 08, 2023
Friday Dec 08, 2023
Hey, Survivor!‘Tis the season for special events. And, for narcissists, special events can evoke sabotage attempts. This could include: holiday parties, family gatherings, weddings, and more. What should be a joyous occasion can easily become a stressful or traumatic situation that compromises your health and wellbeing.
When I got married 26 years ago this week, my dad almost ruined my special day. His toxic behavior included a hotel room “lockdown,” smear campaign, and threats against me and my husband. If I had known then who and what I was dealing with, I could have prepared for the chaos and drama that he created.
If you, or someone you know, need help navigating narcissistic relationships around special occasions, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Dec 01, 2023
Friday Dec 01, 2023
Hey, Survivor!After narcissistic abuse, expressing gratitude can boost your body and brain health.
As a survivor, it can be hard to give thanks, after dealing with a narcissist. That said, being grateful is a healthy way to turn your attention away from narcissistic or toxic relationships that are robbing you of your precious resources (i.e. time, energy, attention, and money). In this episode, I share 3 ways to give thanks.
If you, or someone you know, need help with gratitude on your healing journey, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Nov 24, 2023
Friday Nov 24, 2023
Hey, Survivor!Last week I talked about how to tap into the healing power of music, after narcissistic abuse. This week, I'm sharing how I just put this into practice on my own healing journey. I don't just talk about it...I am about it.
I just returned from Vegas, where I checked a top childhood trauma healing concert off of my bucket list: Johnny Mathis. I had a full-circle experience with an artist, who's music was a big portion of the soundtrack of my dysfunctional upbringing. It was wonderful, wonderful!
If you, or someone you know, need some practical help with tapping into the healing power of music, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Nov 17, 2023
Friday Nov 17, 2023
Hey, Survivor!
Trauma responses can be intense after narcissistic and toxic relationships. And there may be certain songs that you associate with that period in your life. In today's show, I’m sharing ways to tap into the healing power of music, after narcissistic abuse.
Music can calm your nerves, empower you, and set you up to co-regulate with others through shared experiences. So, consider how you can use music to support your health and wellbeing.
If you, or someone you know, needs help tuning out the narcissist, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Nov 10, 2023
Friday Nov 10, 2023
Hey, Survivor!
I know how painful, distressful, scary, and annoying it can be, when the narcissist tries to hoover you. In today's show, I’m sharing 8 hoovering tactics, plus tips for setting healthy boundaries, after narcissistic abuse. The goal isn’t to trigger others. It’s about helping you to triumph over trauma, by stopping the abuse.
Once you have language to describe what has happened to you, it can help to provide clarity, so that you can take your next best step towards healing. Do the best you can with what you have to execute a drama-free exit and prioritize your health and wellbeing.
If you, or someone you know, needs help identifying narcissistic hoovering tactics and standing ten toes down, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Nov 03, 2023
Friday Nov 03, 2023
Hey, Survivor!
I know how hard it is to disconnect from narcissistic and toxic relationships. In today's show, I’m sharing 5 ways to disconnect from this dysfunction. This isn’t about punishing anyone. It’s about creating space for you to begin a long-lasting journey of healing.
As tempting as it is to state your position loudly and proudly, I cannot emphasize enough the importance of moving in silence. Anything you say can and will be used by the narcissist to manipulate you. And going back and forth with a narcissist is stressful and draining. So, go for a drama-free exit, and turn your time, energy, attention, money towards your health and wellbeing.
If you, or someone you know, needs tips for disconnecting from a narcissist, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Friday Oct 27, 2023
Friday Oct 27, 2023
Hey, Survivor!
The struggle is REAL, when it comes to dealing with narcissistic or toxic relationships. In today's show, I’m sharing 10 healing tips to add to your toolbox. One size does not fit all. Healing is a journey that’s as unique as you are.
Regardless of the nature of the relationship, narcissists will drain you of your time, energy, attention, money, and other resources, in an effort to get their needs met. And it can be hard to find others who are able or willing to validate your experience and offer support. The fear and loneliness is stressful; and too much stress will compromise your health. Your health should be your priority, not the narcissist!
If you, or someone you know, could use some tips for healing after a narcissistic relationship, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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